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Cerita Onya (Lagi)

Waktu sekitar 4 minggu Onya masuk primary. 
Dapet imel dari gurunya, intinya dia mau ketemu buat keep us updated about Onya. 
Gimana dia di sekolah?

Gurunya bilang Onya is thriving.
Secara NZ national standard, onya jauu diatas rata2. 
Dalam 4 minggu, rata2 anak yg baru masuk bisa ngenalin/baca 5 kata, Onya 19.
Standard nulis dia udah 16.
Reading, standardnya level 2 Onya udah masuk level 8 skrg. 
Pronunciation dia 100% akurat. 

Jadi orang tua dapet laporan begitu hepi ga? Pastinya. 
Lega juga, karena gw bukan tipe emak2 yg ngejarin n nongkrongin anak suru belajar. 
Learning should be fun. 
Jadi gw ga mau kasi dia pressure soal belajar. 

Thank God, dapet sekolah yg sejalan dan sepaham sama kita. 
Bukan tipe sekolah konservatif yg pake meja kursi... Anak2 disini suka2 mereka posisi yg nyaman aja. Boleh goleran, boleh duduk di beanbags, boleh duduk di karpet, mau sambil tiduran asal fokus juga boleh. Jadi bener2 memaksimalkan belajar dgn bikin anak nyaman. 
Kayak di link ini penjelasannya deh kurang lebih https://hail.to/amesbury-school/article/KLvf8NQ

Pas masa orientasi orang tua, kita diwanti2 kalo anak (terutama yg baru masuk) itu udah have enough. Mereka musti adjust dari TK ke SD.
Beda sekolah, beda guru, beda temen, bahkan beda seragam aja can be a big deal for a 5 year old. 

Onya ga pernah punya homework yg HARUS dikerjain n dikumpul. School ga encourage homework, they do encourage reading. Jadi ada 1-2 buku kecil yg dibawa pulang buat anaknya baca HANYA KALAU ANAKNYA MAU. 
Kalo anaknya ga mau baca ya udah gapapa.
Bahkan kalo anaknya maupun, disarankan 30 menit itu cukup. 

Good thing about anak yg ga pernah dipaksa belajar, di kasus Onya, ini bocah malah jadi demen banget belajar. In her own way ya belajarnya. 
Dia bisa pura2 jadi guru dan ngajarin gw nulis or baca... Ini kalo diikutin bisa literally 2 jem dia ngoceh2 jadi guru dan gw jadi murid. 

Or tetiba dia gw tinggal mandi, pas gw kelar mandi dia tau2 usah ngegambar urinary system. Emang onya demen baca, ini besok weekend udah janji mau bikin volcano. 
Dia liat buku science yg dia pinjem dari library sekolahnya. 

Onya sejak masuk SD ampir tiap hari pulang bawa buku library. Gw yg deg2-an jadinya, saban ari ngitungin dia bawa buku berapa n nanti balikin berapa. System library di sekolahnya, anak2 ketik nama trus scan buku sendiri buat check out. 

Mungkin kalo dibandingin sama standard di indo si secara akademik disini santai banget ya. 
Gw denger di indo masuk SD ada tes calistung gitu sekarang? 
Belon lagi anak2 yg ikut sempoa or kumon... Haduuu... Kalo gw liatnya rada kasian otak anak 5-6 taon dipake begitu berat hahahaha then again, tiap orang beda. 

Kalo gw, lebih pengen anak menghargai makhluk idup n alam. Contoh ya, ati gw adem loh tau Onya sering maen cacing. 
Cacing?? Iyaaa, cacing! Idup, belendir dan goyang2 hahaha. 
Maennya ya tentu aja bukan sengaja disakitin or disiksa. Mainnya as simple as dia liat cacing terus tu cacing dibelai2 ama dia. Kadang kalo cacingnya di aspal, bakal dicomot and "dianterin" ke rumput.
"So noone would step on him accidentally", gitu katanya.

Besukur juga kalo Onya lagi istirahat, gw bisa ngawasin dia pake binoculars dari rumah hahaha wong sekolahnya keliatan gitu dari atas bukit. 

As for me? 
I met quite a few of other moms.
I get to know one of my neighbour better karena anaknya juga baru masuk sekolah yg sama and he's just 3 days older than Onya. 

Just yesterday, anjing tetangga kanan gw lepas. Yg punya ga tau karena ga ada dirumah. 
Tu anjing berkeliaran sepagian n sesiangan. 
Sang anjing emanf udah beberapa kali lepas gitu tapi ga pernah selama kemarwn keliarannya. Kayanya dia locked out diluar ga bisa masuk lagi.

It's a big dog. Chowchow. 
Yang ngerti anjing pasti tau, chow2 itu bego hahahaha. Badannya doang gede tapi harmless. 

Yg bikin ati gw adem ya, people care. 
Beberapa tetangga yg lain berusaha "nangkep" tu anjing karena takut dia ketabrak. Walo jalan perumahan ga rame, tp kan tetep ada aja mobil lewat. 

Segala cara dicoba mulai dari panggil2, sampe coba kasi makanan tp sang anjing selalu kabur kayak ngajak maen gitu kalo dideketin. 

Tapi ya itu... People actually care n try to help. Bahkan tetangga atas yg jauh yg lg mau pergi sampe brentiin mobilnya n ikut turun coba help si anjing buat masukin ke rumahnya balik (pintu ke halaman belakang bisa dibuka krn cuma kaya pager kayu doang. 

Akhirnya apa?
Akhirnya gw bawa Pippy keluar jadi umpan hahaha. Bener aja, sang chow2 sukarela ngikutin si pippy (yg gw gendong tentunya karena pippy suka blagu kalo sama anjing laen), jadi deeh gw gendong pippy, chow2 ngikutin, dan tetangga laen bukain pager buat si chow2. Voila! The dog is safe and sound again. 

All in all, I'm gratefull sangat with my life here.

Orang2 ga pusing urusan materi, jadi they have enough time to actually care sama hal2 "kecil". 






Comments

Viola Deo said…
Good job Onya :) sekolahny seru yah. Sounds fun dan ga stressful. Ini semua sekolah di NZ emang sistemnya gt ato beda sekolah beda sistem yah?
Candice Eva said…
Kalo soal akademik sih sama semua national standard-nya phen. Jauuuuuhhh lebi santai n ga stressfull kalo dibanding di sing or indo. Cuma kalo approach, ga semua sekolah pake system ga ada meja-kursi kayak sekolah onya, masi banyak yg meja-kursi biasa juga kok :)

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