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Weaning

I've been trying to wean her since she was 15 months old.
Pelan2 sih. Gw ga mau maksa.
Jd ya obviously adalah episode jerit2, nangis kejernya *this happened on BOTH the baby AND the mother*
Bukannya apa, tp gw jg sometimes very very tired.
Onya bisa bangun 2 jam sekali minta nenen.
Bahkan pas mo numbuh gigi bisa 30 menit sekali bangun.

Dan I know dia nenen itu no longer as "needs", tapi more buat comfort. Karena kalo weekend gw ngelayap seharian (onya ditinggal dirumah dijaga Andi), dia santai2 aja. Tidur aja tanpa nangis. Digendong sebentar juga bobo.

Jd ya pelan2 dibilangin, ga bole nenen lagi.
Trus kadang di tega-in, gak dikasih nenen walo dia nangis2. Tp itupun gak lama gw biarin nangisnya.
I'm not the kind of mom yg bisa blaga budek :(

Jd stage weaningnya Onya tuh gini:

1. Nencoy/Empeng/Pacifier
Yess... Gw in a very desperate need to get a stretch of night time sleep sampe gw kasih empeng!
Sukses???? Ooohhh jelas TIDAK!! Dgn sukses DILEPEH mentah2 ama Onya.
Gw beliin dia nencoy dr yg 20 rebu sampe 200 rebu, dr made in cina sampe made in USA, tetep loh ga ada yg dia mao. Malah dia lebih tertarik gigit2 pinggirannya. Hasilnya? Gw jd punya banyak "bangke" nencoy dirumah. (5 biji)

2. Mulai dibiasain dia gak pules pas di nenen.
Jadi sebelum dia pules, udah gw taro diranjang.
Awalnya nangis.
Lama2 mulai bisa, tapi sebagai gantinya dia suka naro tangan dia diperut gw. Jd tetep skin-to-skin lah.
(It's a very warm feeling)

3. Mulai biasain dia mau tidur sama Andi.
Nah yg ini awalnya dia ga mau, nangis2 kl malem digendong Andi, buset bisa nangis jerit2 dia.

4. Gw ngumpet.
Nah, dia kalo ga liat gw tuh ga nyari nenen. Lebih santai.
Akhirnya 2 weeks ago gw kl malem misah kamar. Nangis2 dia awalnya, satu rumah dikiterin nyariin mami.
Hat up buat Andi yg mau take the commitment buat dgn amat sabar gendong n bujukin onya.

5. Nipple Shield!
Setelah mulai bisa bobo sama Andi, ahirnya dihadirkanlah maminya. Tetep dooong nyari nenen lagii.
Tapi gw beli nipple shield yg sebenernya buat ngelindungin puting kl lecet. Pas onya mo nenen, dia ga suka krn dia dr orok merah kan emang ga pernah minum apapun dari bottle, so she doesn't like rubber silikon dot gitu.
Yes! Kali ini sukses. Gw jejel2in tu nenen ke muka dia, dia malah melengos pegi sambil senyum2 bilang "no! No! Ngga! Ngga!" Gituuuu

Ahirnya dia milih bobo digendong andi lagi. Yay!

kalo bobo siang, kan ga ada andi yg gendong.
Dia minta nenen, tp nenen gw udah gw sarungin. Dia ga suka. Solusinya?? Dia bobo sambil nempelin pipinya ke nenen gw aja. Tp ga nenen. Cuma nyari comfort aja.

3 hari kemaren baru dia mulai bisa bobo cuma gw pangku aja.

Hari ini Andi blg dia tidur udah ga digendong! *gw ngungsi ke kamar onya* jd cuma ditaro diranjang trus dia pules sendiri. Yay!!

So. It's a long proses.. Ini juga masih on going kok.
Ampir 7 bulan nih. Tp gw bener2 pake slow weaning with love. Lagian, anjuran IDAI (ikatan dokter anak indonesia), sebaiknya kan kasih asi 2 taon... And manfaat asi di early year itu luar biasa sih. Onya jaraaang bgt sakit. Kl sakit juga paling common-cold aja.

It's gonna be a beautiful goodbye between Onya and nenen.

Ini salah satu cara gw giving her the best yg gw bisa. Kasih dia bekal good imune-system sampe dia dewasa nanti.

Sekian yah. Dadakan ngantuk nih...

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