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Andi dan Aku...

Im a D-type personality,
... Andi is an S-type.
We've got a bit of personality clash lately.

I've a tendency to take things into my own hand.
Ga demen yg lelet,
maunya langsung ada,
suka judes...

Sedangkan Andi terlalu "tenang" as a person.
Suussssaaaahhh banget pengen bikin dia marah.
Sometimes, kl otak gw lagi sableng... I purposely picked a fight.
.. cuma pengen tau aja reaksinya.
(nakalnya dirikuuu)

To top it all up, Im a perfectionist.
I want everything to be meticulous.
... which, doesn't help at all.
Minute things bugged me big time.
N kalo dah gitu, gw bisa ngoceh2 ga jelas.
trus jadi bete....
duuuh, kadang berasa deeh adat gw jelek banget.
Kayak si papi tuh.

Sedangkan Andi,
hhmm..... typical cowo deh.
Suka seenak jidat kl naro barang,
suka jorok.... *kemaren kepergok ngupil dlm tidur.. euuhh*
n yg paling gw ga demen... IGNORANT!!
Waktu itu dia pake anduk Selly,
masa ga bisa bedain mana anduk dia siih?
jelas2 warnanya beddaa.

Trus lampu dikamar putus,
kalo ga gw tegor.. ampe BERBULAN2 jg ga bakal diganti bohlamnya.
Cueekk ajaa.

Pager rumah, udah seret.. kudu ditambahin oli biar lancar.
Kalo gw ga koar2.... Cueeeekkk aajjjaaaa.

Kan kadang sebeel..
itu kan kudunya kerjaan cowo toh kalo yg tehnikal stuff gitu?
Masa kudu gw yg bebacotan?

Misalnya lagi nyetir, trus ada orang rese..
waah, kalo gw yg nyetir maaaah.. udah gw klaksonin menggila gitu.
Sedangkan andi?
santai aje...... nrimo, ngalah... silahken....

Kalo otak lagi lempeng, kayak sekarang nih..
ditengah kesendiranku dimalam ini,
yaaah bersukur banget.

Emang ya, Tuhan baik.
Gw dpt pasangan yg totally the opposite...
Makanya tema waktu wedding kan "The Journey",
ya karena idup itu ada lah suatu pembelajaran yg ga pernah selesai.

Beneath his rese exterior,
gw tau ko, inside he's a very very very good person.
He has a big heart.
I just need to look deeper.

Gw jg masi banyak banget yg kudu dibenerinnya.
Change must come inside, then out.
We both are like raw diamonds yg kudu diasah.
I wanna be a better me.

Comments

Anonymous said…
amin sis't..
everything has been created pairly'
jadi bisa saling melengkapi getho..
hihihihi.. ^_^

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