Jadi Inget Kata2 Papi

Papi sering bilang,
kenapa orang2 Indo tuh susah sukses.
.... kerena mereka sok tau!

Mereka ga mau denger what other people has to say.
Berasa tau, berasa paling bener.
Belum apa2 udah bilang "alaaah, yg begituan mah ga mungkiiin"

Berasa paling jago...
padahal maaah, apa susahnya sih dengerin dulu?
Toh ga ada yg bisa maksa.
.. tapi at least wawasan jadi luas toh??

Misalnya gini :
Lu pacaran sama si Anu.
Trus denger dari si B katanya si Anu itu matre,
Lhaa??
Instead of langsung marah2 sama si B
(kesannya ga terima pacarnya dijelek2in),
ga ada salahnya toh lu denger dulu?

Denger aja.
Ga ada yg maksa lu buat (misalnya) mutusin si Anu toh?
Biar gimana toh, keputusan tetep ditangan lu sendiri.

Sama halnya soal bisnis,
soal whatever kepercayaan yg lu anut,
soal pacar,
soal beli mobil,
soal apaaa ajaaa...

Denger aje dulu!
Kalo lu ga mau denger orang,
kalo lu berasa tau segalanya,
.... yaah, terima nasib aja deeh.
Ga akan pernah maju jadi orang.

Kl lg gini,
gw besukuuuurrr banget punya papi.
Walo to be honest,
kadang2 dia itu pain in the ass kalo ngomong.

Tapi yg diomongin tuh bener banget.
It took me me years buat bisa "ngertiin" papi.
Im glad gw bisa ngeliat the brighter side of the coin.
Gw belajar banyaaak banget.
N pagi ini gw sadar,
.... kalo papi tuh udah 'ngebekalin' gw buat jd orang sukses.

*lagi sebel ama dia yg so tau*

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Bucket List

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Pippy

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